The first thing you need to know is that not every adult experiences sex in the same way, which is why comparing your sex lives with others is not guaranteed to give you relevant information. Some women are able to have amazing orgasms during sexual intercourse, while others are not. For some, orgasms can only be achieved during oral sex, and in some sad cases, a woman may not be able to orgasm at all – take the case of the very popular porn star, Audrey Bitoni, who claims to never have had an orgasm. So why is this the case, and how can you deal with situations where a woman is only able to orgasm during certain activities?
The simple fact is that some vaginas are just not as sensitive as others. If you are not making a lady cum during intercourse, it is not necessarily because you have a small cock or that you don’t know what you’re doing. She may just not be able to cum this way because her vagina lacks sensitivity. Intercourse itself is not certain to cause intense arousal, unless you manage to find the g-spot (if you’re not sure where that is, check the internet). The act of penetration is just a man’s cock going in and out, and this can be used to explain why oral sex is sometimes more pleasurable for a woman, and more capable of bringing her to bliss.
When a woman receives oral sex, it is by a tongue which is able to move and contort itself in more ways than a penis can. A person can flick their tongue easily at varying speeds and also opt to suck her clit – whatever she demands, they can easily give her. In addition, the partner can also choose to insert their fingers into her pussy and move them at an ever-increasing speed. In short, there are more options in which to pleasure, which is helpful if a woman is less sensitive.
Sadly, for some women, although they derive an immense pleasure from sex, reaching an actual orgasm just isn’t possible. This can be due to a lack of sensitivity, but it may be for other reasons. It is key to remember that just because you may not be able to give a woman an orgasm in all situations, you are still probably doing a good job. And just because she doesn’t orgasm does not mean she’s not having a good time.
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